Showing posts with label masalah hati. Show all posts
Showing posts with label masalah hati. Show all posts

Sunday, 13 October 2013

Having a Cheapskate Mother

yea, I have a cheapskate mother, but that's  not an insult, okay?
I'm proud to have a cheapskate mother so that i wouldn't be an easily fooled buyer.
this week, it is a 5 days off school because of Aidul Adha! Or mostly malaysian says "Raya Korban".
So, I went home with my sister at our new house in Shah Alam, without my older sister, that is because she said "I'd rather stay at Gramma's house than following you guys so I can focus on my studds"

I'm happy to be in Shah Alam, we eat food that aren't much in Kuantan, hey, I'm not saying Kuantan is a boring place is just that "Home Sweet Home" right? Another thing I like about being in KL is that they have lots of highway that can lead you to any place and less stop by traffic.

Yesterday and today, we went to town for a window shopping, buy some groceries and also grab lunch at a restaurant. I've realised long time ago about my mother's a cheapskate but than i focused on what she told me when we were shopping.

Her eyes was like a tiger as we entered the mall, she only focuses on the promotion, sale and discounts label. But I think usual commoners would just come and search for things they should buy, but my mommy is so not like that. She would say "Yana, is that buy 3 for RM10", "don't buy that,that is only if we buy a box for 30% discount" or "can't you find a cheaper price yogurt drink?" actually some brands price RM1.59, RM1,69 and RM1.79 not much differences but mommy just say "if you could collect 10 sen  a day you can afford yourself a gadget"


Baaah, that's way too ridiculous, 10 sen a day then i need to wait until 2 years I can afford a gadget, sometimes middle-aged mother just babble-naggin' silly things so that their children would work harder.

Another tips is when i wanted to buy a crab for dinner, she only picks female with eggs and full body, I ask her "Mom, why dont you pick that one cuz it's big eventhough it's a male" Mommy knocks the ice-full crab's body "Naaah, the ices wont go off , we cant take this crab because when we scale it, we need to pay more just because of the ices weight." I can only nod but that is right.


I understands that "Mommy knows best"
so, every mother still needs to increase their knowledge and removes all their bad habits so that your children wouldn't be a useless child, every child 80% learnt about life from their parents (my own facts, so i don't care if you wanna believe or not)

Sunday, 2 December 2012

Perempuan Zaman Sekarang

Mulai post yang terbaru ni Yana nak guna perbahasan "Ana-Antum"
Ana-Saya
Antum-Korang

Topik hari ni yang ana nak bincangkan ialah tentang perempuan, ana sendiri sebagai seorang pelajar yang duduk dekat asrama, dah biasa sanagt kene tegur ngn warden lelaki, kene kutuk dengan pelajar lelaki
nowadays, it's seems to be normal
Tapi, kalau zaman mak-nenek ana dulu, perempuan dah kene sound sikit pun dah blush muka ni! Kita sebagai pompuan kene ada rasa malu, tapi malu yang berpada-pada lah.

Ana mula sedar yang perempuan zaman sekarang dah macam rock kapak semasa tengah berborak ngan geng >.< heh! Time tu ana sedar, beberapa kawan ana duduk dengan cara yang pelik, tak sopan paling biasa diperkatakan TAK MACAM PEREMPUAN.
Bila sume pelajar kena berkumpul dalam madrasah, ana ter"intai" pelajar lelaki dan sedar, cara mereka duduk lebih sopan dari perempuan ! alahai~ malunya...

Alasan yang perempuan selalu kasi, "susah nak duduh sopan kalau pakai kain" macam tak logik je, sebab kain dah kasi 'RUANG BEBAS' dekat seluruh bahagian kaki, apa yang susah dan tak panas pon!
Ana tengok pelajar lelaki, mereka pon pakai kain pelekat, cara duduk:-  tegangkan kain pelekat, labuhkan lutut dahulu, duduk dengan tenang (dah macam bersimpuh pun ada)
Siapalah sangka lelaki pun tahu rasa malu duduh terkangkang dalam majlis ilmu.

Lagi satu masalahnya, satu kelompok perempuan tengah berjalan lepas tu, terasa diri ni macam ada orang duk usha, dah kembang dah punggung tu, siap jeling-jeling, control ayu!
Tak perlulah, sebab lelaki tu usha kita pun tak pasti tengok bahagian baik atau bahagian buruk diri kita.
Ana sarankan korang sentiasa berfikir 'vice versa'

kalau ana tengah kutuk lelaki ngan kawan-kawan ana, ana akan fikir vice versa "agak, pernah tak lelaki kutuk perempuan juga?" dengan cara ni kita akan ada rasa macam sendiri bersalah, sama dengan situasi antum nampak lelaki usha antum, dalam hati pun terdetik "eeeh~ lelaki tadi usha aku, eeeh~" fikir vice versa, bayangkan kita ialah lelaki itu "eee~ aku terpandang minah tu je, mesti dia ingat aku nak usha dia.... yik!"

Kesimpulannya, kita yang masih menuntut ilmu ni fokus pada masa depan sahaja, kalau hati terdetik rasa jealous sebab kawan-kawan semua dah berpunya, kita sahaja yang masih solo, berdoa sahaja supaya jodoh cepat diketemukan